Sometimes the bad things that happen in our lives put us directly on the path to the best things that will ever happen to us. I know that for certain , ocasionally my life feels like a rollercoaster . You know what I’m talking about , right ? Everything being more than awesome for one moment ( can last for a hour , day , month ..year maybe) , and the next one seems like you were thrown in a dark hole , everything gets in your way , kinda like your destiny is putting up a fight with you . “ Oh , you want to reach your goals ? Let me put some obstacles in your way , loser ” and in moments like that I just say to myself : ” NO , I can do it ! ” . Because as a female , okay no … let’s not be sexist haha , as a person I do overthink situations a lot , which I do see as a bad side of myself . Then I get lost in my own thoughts and gets hard to make the right decission , because you saw at least five playscripts in your head and can’t choose the best one .
Key is to do what you want and listen to your heart , it will show you the right direction . I know it might sound cliché and namby-pamby , but it is in fact the truth ! Of course I am not saying you shouldn’t take advices from family & friends , they are helpful and amazing like a real life GPS , but you should know your own power ! In life you will realize there is a role for everyone to meet. Some will test you, some will use you, some will love you, and some will teach you. But the ones who are truly important are the ones who bring out the best in you. They are the rare and amazing people who remind you why it’s worth it. There will always be someone who is envious or jealous of what you have ( material or not ) and probably will try to sabotage you , might not even be on purpose ( subconscious ) but more likely it is . So make sure you know what you want from life and don’t depend on others .
” A flower does not think of competing to the flower next to it , it just blooms. ”
I got really carried away with this post . What I really wanted to say basically is that you need positive thinking and optimistic attitude for success . The impact of positive thinking on your work, your health, and your life is being studied by people who are much smarter than me. This type of attitude will create a very good and positive atmosphere around you. Positive people are more likely to be successful than the negative ones. When you will implement positive thinking into your life, you will notice that success becomes easier and it’s not as tough and difficult, as many people think . Negativity can blind people’s mind. If you turn your thoughts from the negative ones into positive, your eyes will be opened and you will see the bottle half full , instead of half empty. You will start to notice solutions and will understand that every problem is actually an opportunity to grow.
Also don’t forget to love yourself . If you fucked up today, that’s okay. You need to start treating yourself the way you deserve to be treated . Prove to the world you ARE worth something by treating yourself with the utmost respect and other people will follow your example. And even if they don’t, at least one person in the world is treating you well: YOU. I believe in the person I want to become , you should too . So in the end all I am saying is: – Set some goals , stay quiet about them . Smash the shit out of it and clap for your damn self !
” If you’re happy and you know it, clap your hands ”